When Carla was referred to us, she was struggling with depression and suicidal thoughts. She had two young children under 4 and was feeling unable to go on. She was matched with a volunteer Family Mentor and, in time, started to make progress, but when COVID hit and lockdown was enforced, Carla’s mental health declined; she was struggling again and the children were becoming unsettled.
Her mentor provided telephone support every week. She talked through coping mechanisms and strategies for self-care. They set routines for the children and planned some games and activities to do each day. Her volunteer did some doorstep drops, delivering colouring and activity books for the children and essentials like milk formula, toiletries and nappies.
When the rules were lifted, the Family Group re-started and she was supported to return. Carla seemed a different person when she was at the Group, mixing with other parents and building her confidence. The children enjoyed playing in a safe and relaxed environment and socialising with other children – something they had not done for over a year.
Mum said:
“At the beginning of my Home-Start journey, I found motherhood difficult and dreaded every day; dark thoughts made my life a misery. After all that I have been through, Home-Start gave me the confidence and encouragement but most of all they helped me to enjoy being a mother.”